When I first started yoga, I never considered practicing on my own until a teacher introduced the concept one day in class. “
If you’re scared of coming up into headstand,” she casually mentioned, “you can work on it at home.”
Wait. There’s homework in
yoga?! Was this something I had to do? Would I fail if I didn’t?
And what exactly would I do on the mat if I were left to my own devices? How could I cook up a practice
on my own that would compare with the sequences we did in class? Confused, I ignored the seeds my teacher sprinkled.
If you want to build a consistent home practice, start by choosing four or five poses that feel great,
so you'll feel compelled (rather than obligated) to roll out your mat.
My doubts were by no means unique. The biggest misconception people have about a home practice, according t
o San Francisco–based yoga teacher Jason Crandell, “is they think it should have the same degree of intensity and be
as long as a regular class.” Not only is this thinking not true, he says, it can sabotage a person’s efforts to establish a
home practice.
“It’s a lot like cooking,” says Crandell. “Sure, you could make restaurant-caliber food for every meal, but a piece of peanut
butter toast now and then will also sustain you quite nicely.” In the spirit of creating a peanut-butter-toast practice
of your very own, I’ve put together some guidelines to help you overcome the three biggest hurdles we all face:
complacency (how to make yourself actually do it); fear (what to do once you commit to start); and busyness
(how to find the time).
4 Reasons to Start a Home Practice
A quick tour through the benefits of establishing a regular (meaning you do it more days than you don’t)
home yoga practice should motivate you to get started:
1. Self-knowledge.
“Practicing on your own helps you learn to self-regulate and self-soothe,” Crandell says. “It’s like driving your
own car versus being chauffeured—when you’re driving, you have a greater responsibility to pay attention
and to choose where you’re going and to respond to what happens as you travel along.”
2. Self-help.
The more you practice, the better you’ll get at assessing how you feel, so when you first come to the mat, you can choose a practice that counterbalances whatever’s going on—mentally, physically, and emotionally.
3. Self-indulgence.
How many other endeavors allow you to do whatever you darn well please? “Practicing on your own is so indulgent,
” Crandell says. “You can take anywhere from 2 to 90 minutes and do whatever you want at whatever pace, tone,
and intensity you choose.”
4. Exponential growth.
“When you practice regularly, the effects of each session don’t have a chance to wear off before you come
back to the mat,” says Cyndi Lee, a New York City–based yoga teacher and founder of OM Yoga Center.
“That consistency offers benefits that double and then double again.”
Not bad for something you can do in your living room without spending a dime. Yet even the biggest dose of inspiration
won’t make your home practice a reality if you aren’t also armed with a few guidelines to dispel the fear that you won’t
be doing it right.
How to Design a Home Yoga Practice
These six tips can help you chart a course for your home practice and give you the confidence that you do, in fact, know what you’re doing. They also provide the means to keep your practice fresh, so that you don’t have to resort to doing the same handful of poses over and over (unless you want to, of course—it is your home practice, after all).
Start with quiet.
Before you dive into a sun salutation or a specific pose, start in a comfortable seated position or even in corpse pose,
suggests Amy Pearce-Hayden, RYT, founder of The YogaScape and Spa in Carmel, New York, and youyoga.me—
a website geared toward yogis practicing on their own at home. “When you begin with stillness, you can see how your
body and mind feel and then decide what to do based on that,” she says.
Pick a direction.
This should depend on how you feel. If you’re tired and pressed for time, choose a short restorative practice.
If you’re raring to go, opt for a more vigorous practice. If you need grounding and stability, focus on standing poses. If you need energy, incorporate backbends. “The more you use your practice to take care of your immediate needs, the more strength and energy you’ll have in the long run,” Crandell says.
If you're tired and pressed for time, choose a short restorative practice. If you need grounding and stability,
focus on standing poses.
Set an intention.
This simple suggestion ensures that you’ll use your time—no matter how short—constructively.
Sample intentions Pearce-Hayden suggests include creating a sense of spaciousness in a specific
part of the body, working on a specific practice or pose, or noticing (and letting go of) any emotions
that arise—without judgment.
Choose poses you love.
There’s a common perception that you should use a home practice to work on the poses that truly challenge you.
Throw that idea out the window, Crandell suggests. “If you want to build a consistent home practice, it has to be more
of a carrot than a stick.” Start by choosing four or five poses that feel great, so you’ll feel compelled, rather than obligated,
to roll out your mat.
Pay attention in class.
You could start taking mental notes in class: I really like when we do down dog, low lunge, down dog again, and pigeon,
I’ll do those three at home. “I would be disappointed if my students weren’t taking some of the things we do on a regular
basis and incorporating them into their regular lives,” Crandell says.
Move in all directions.
Lee suggests you choose at least one pose for each direction the body moves—leaning side to side, forward and back,
twisting, and turning upside down (which could be as simple as downward dog or a standing forward bend).
“If you incorporate all the directions,” she says, “you create a complete practice.”
When (and Where) to Practice
To build a consistent home practice, you need to carve out space for it—metaphorically as well as literally.
Perhaps the biggest challenge is finding the time. In order for Pearce-Hayden to keep her home practice alive, she says,
“I can’t allow myself to be swayed by the anxiety that nearly always pops up that I can’t afford to take any time away
from getting things done.” Taking even a little bit of time to practice grounds you and inspires you, so that when you
return to your to-do list, you are more focused and productive. “I’ve come to realize that when I give myself 10
or 15 minutes, the rest of my day feels more spacious,” she says.
Choosing a dedicated area in your home to practice in can also help create room in your psyche for a practice to take root.
And that physical space needn’t be large, pretty, or even particularly Zen. “I’ve been practicing for years on a sliver of floor
between the fireplace and the coffee table that’s exactly big enough for a yoga mat,” Lee says. “Even though it’s more
of a nonspace, all those practices have imbued it with a feeling that is really attractive to me.” Even when you’re
dragging your feet, the aura of your regular practice site will make you more likely to visit it. “When you’re in your
special spot, you’ll be fully immersed in your practice after only two breaths,” says Lee. “Just looking at it will be a trigger.”
How to Keep Going, No Matter What
So, what about those times when you don’t feel well or when life piles up, making even a five-minute downward dog
extremely unlikely? Get creative. “At its heart, a yoga practice is an intention to observe your actions and reactions.
It doesn’t necessarily have to take a certain form,” Pearce-Hayden says. Your practice could mean watching your
reactions at work, or while standing in line at the grocery store. It could also mean deciding to mother with total absorption
during the next diaper change, or “washing the dishes to wash the dishes,” as Thich Nhat Hanh famously said in his book
The Miracle of Mindfulness.
“If you can breathe, you can do yoga,” well-known Iyengar teacher Patricia Walden once said. Practice gentle pranayama
exercises, or meditate, when you’re laid up in bed or when you’re on hold for a conference call. What really matters is your dedication. “Anything that’s a practice takes commitment, patience, and a certain level of generosity to yourself,” Lee says.
Keep in mind that your commitment can take on a life of its own—that a deeper part of yourself yearns for the connection
that a regular home practice can provide. I know of this firsthand: those seeds my teacher first planted 16 years ago began
sprouting on their own, despite my initial resistance.
A year or two into my practice, I began noodling around on my mat now and again—mostly working on the inversions
that unnerved me whenever they came up in class. I’ll never forget the sensation of my feet spontaneously rising up
together to lift into my first unsupported headstand in the middle of my living room. Somehow the privacy and familiar
surroundings made that once terrifying act effortless.
I'm utterly convinced of the power of home practice--not because it's something I should do, but because it helps me listen to what's happening in my mind and body.
As a teacher trainee, I was required to practice
at home several days a week and to journal about it. That indoctrination came in handy a few years later when I had two
babies in two years, and regular classes were no longer a possibility. I’ve been practicing on my own now for four years.
And while I look forward to the day when I again have time for a regular class with a primary teacher, I’m utterly convinced
of the power of a home practice—not because it’s something I should do, but because it helps me listen to what’s
happening in my mind and body. And it gives me what my being needs to attain something akin to balance. I
t helps me notice, process, and release the inevitable physical and emotional kinks that build up during the course of daily
living. I can’t imagine what kind of mother, writer, wife, or human I’d be without it.
Jason Crandell’s 10-Minute Home Yoga Practice
Jason Crandell starts his own home practice with this simple series of poses. “It works great by itself, but a lot of times
all you have to do is start. After these 10 minutes, your practice can gain a momentum of its own and go in any direction—
whether it’s quiet and restorative or physically vigorous.”
Lie on your back. Hook a belt around your right foot
and raise your foot up toward the ceiling, drawing the shoulder blades onto your back. Hold for 5 breaths and switch legs.
Supta padangusthasana II (reclining big toe pose II)
Repeat reclining big toe pose on the right leg. This
time, as you exhale, open the leg out to the side. Hold for 5 breaths, and then switch to the left leg.
From a seated position, fold at the hips and walk your fingertips forward until your arms are fully extended. After 5 breaths, sit up, change the cross of the legs, and repeat.
Adho mukha shvanasana (downward-facing dog pose)
Press up into downward dog. Keep your knees bent—and your heels lifted. As you exhale, lift your sitting bones,
press your thighs back, and stretch your heels toward the floor.
Anjaneyasana (low lunge pose)
From downward dog, step your right foot forward between your hands, drop your left knee to the ground, and bring both hands to your right knee. After 3 to 5 breaths, switch legs.
Adho mukha shvanasana (downward-facing dog pose)
Press up into downward dog once again. Bend your knees slightly and lift your sitting bones up toward the ceiling. Exhale, press your thighs back, and stretch your heels toward the floor.
Eka pada rajakapotasana (pigeon prep pose)
Bring your right leg forward into pigeon pose, keeping your left leg extended behind you. Hinging at the hips, rest your forehead on your arms. Hold for a minute, and then switch legs.
Balasana (child’s pose)
Kneel on the floor. With big toes touching, open your knees wide and fold forward at the hips. Rest your forehead on the
floor and stretch your arms out in front of you.
Start
out by using one or two foam noodles, or the side of the pool. Standing
with a straight spine and one arm extended holding a noodle or the wall
to your left or right, bend the outer leg and bring the knee towards
the chest. Grab the big toe or outer edge of the foot, and straighten
the leg as much as possible without losing the straightness of your
back. Slowly take the leg to the side, keeping both hips forward, and
the back straight. Feel the water support your balance. When you’re
ready, let go of the noodle or wall. Stand tall and balance. Repeat on
the other side.
Using one or two foam noodles, place both hands on the noodle/s. Stand
with a straight spine, rolling the shoulders away from the ears. Slowly
push the noodle/s away, and simultaneously arch the back and roll over
to the top of the toes. Use the core to stay in place while holding the
noodle/s.
Start out by using one or two foam noodles, or the side of the pool.
Standing with a straight spine and your left arm fully extended holding a
noodle or the wall so it is directly in front of you. Take the right
hand and place it on your right hip. Slowly hinge forward at the hips
while raising the right leg behind you. Keep both legs straight. As the
right leg rises, keep the foot flexed. When your right leg is parallel
to the ground, or your face is too close to the water, open the hips
towards the right and raise the right arm towards the sky. Feel how the
water supports your leg and your torso. Repeat on the other side.
Using 2 noodles, place each lengthwise on your left and right side.
Grab each noodle with your hands and press down gently into the water.
As the noodles go down, engage your uddiyana bandha, or core muscles, to
let your legs float in front of you. Hold and breathe. Feel the water
support your legs, but use your core to enable you to stay.
