Are you single, and wish you weren’t? You know that there are many wonderful singles out there, so why are they so elusive? Where are they all?Have all the good ones been taken? “Why haven’t I been able to find my ‘one’?” If you’re looking for a way how to find your true love, don’t despair. You need a little information, and you’ll be on the path to attracting your one true love.
Core Must-Haves
First, what are you looking for? Start with identifying your ideal partner’s traits. You know which physical traits you find appealing; but don’t stop there! Identify your ideal mate’s values and interests, and what you are willing to compromise on and what you aren’t. Nobody will be perfect… nobody will possess all of the qualities on your wish list. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be extraordinarily happy together! Don’t make this an exhaustive list. Just a few must-haves.
A great way to narrow your list of must-haves so that you don’t end up excluding someone who is otherwise perfect for you, is to ask yourself, “Would I rather be single than to live with someone who isn’t [a must-have quality] and narrow your list to the CORE must-haves.
One core must-have that you may not be considering is that your partner must love and appreciate you for who you are and what your values are. True love is when your partner values you for YOU; when your partner encourages you to be ‘you’ and loves you unconditionally for who you are. Anything else will lead to resentment and disappointment.
When you are considering entering into a relationship with someone, make a mental note of your must-haves.
DO NOT COMPROMISE ON YOUR MUST-HAVES. The other stuff is not as important and you can overlook some things when the core must-haves are present. But if those are missing, move on before you get too involved and it becomes harder to let go!
Yes, this is a bit of a clinical approach to love, but if you don’t identify what you want and what you refuse to live without, who knows what you’ll get? Set a clear intention of what you want.
The most amazing part of this exercise is when you realize that the traits you want in your partner are either similar to your own, or they are traits you admire and would like to possess. What you see in others is what you see in yourself
The real key to finding your true love is to develop yourself and become the ULTIMATE YOU.
An essential part of finding your true love is being in love with yourself. Not in a narcissistic way, but simply liking yourself and accpeting yourself for who you are. You must be comfortable in your own skin! You must feel WHOLE – meaning that you are a complete person as you are, and you do not feel a need for being with another person who scompletes’ you. If you feel this need, just know that no person can ever fill that void because it is a void that does not exist. After all, you weren’t born as half a human who is waiting for your other half to materialize.
You are whole, and you are YOU. Do you like yourself? If not, what is it about yourself that you can improve? Become comfortable with yourself, be happy alone with yourself, before looking for your true love.
If you’re having trouble seeing yourself in a loving light, Use the Silva visualization exercises to see yourself through the eyes of your true love: imagine sitting face to face and seeing the love they have for you in their eyes. Mentally trade places and see yourself as they see you. Feel their love for you. Feel that love for yourself. Only then, can you see another through the eyes of love.
You may think of finding your true love as a numbers game, where you have to ‘kiss a lot of frogs’ before you find your prince (or princess). If that is your intention, then that is what will happen. Alternatively, and much more effectively, you can:- Work on yourself, becoming the best possible partner for your true love. Work on developing those qualities you admire in others so that you attract a person with those qualities, someone who will mirror your own traits and energy.
- Use the Silva Method visualization exercises to paint a mental picture of your ideal partner, and don’t forget to put yourself into that mental image!
Above all, love yourself first. You cannot attract what you don’t feel! Loving yourself makes you a more attractive person – you will radiate happiness, serenity, enthusiasm and other wonderful energies that will magnetically attract your true love.
Where Do I Find My True Love?
Skip the bars and the gym. The best place to find your true love is to create an energeticattraction. And since energy knows no bounds, you don’t have to limit yourself to the available singles in your area; you may well attract someone from very, very far away, whose energy matches yours!
Many people ask, “Where do I find true love?” The best answer is, don’t look. Don’t seek. Attracting your true love starts within yourself! Love yourself, work on yourself, and be open to meeting your true love, anywhere, anytime. Sure, you can hang out where the right type of people are, but don’t go there hoping to find love, because that can lead to disappointment. ALLOW yourself and that person to find each other.
As with all affairs of the heart, use your intuition and ALLOW a bit of ‘magic’. Know that there are no coincidences – it’s all in the energy you project. WHO YOU ARE will attract the right person.
Final thoughts: Love is not a chemical reaction. It’s a flow of loving energy between people, andlike attracts like.
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